If I’m honest, I’ve been procrastinating writing this.
It felt more important than I had the brain space to give it.
A few weeks ago, I recorded a conversation I had with Lauren Cibene.
I say “recorded a conversation” because “interviewed for my podcast” doesn’t really capture how things ended up going.
Normally, I’d say something like, “I had the honor of interviewing Lauren,” which makes it sound like a celebrity’s agent finally found 30 minutes in her schedule to let me set up my A/V club microphone and ask her a few questions.
But that’s not what this is.
I first met Lauren through her writing. I was inspired by it, a little jealous of her seemingly effortless talent, and felt less alone as I tried to hold my unraveling faith together.
For a while, I was just a supportive reader, but when Lauren reached out for some publishing advice, we became friends.
As much as the internet can be a flaming cesspool of humanity’s basest instincts, I have met three real friends through the internet who have made my 30 years online worth it.
First was my friend Marcie, who helped me grow up.
Second was my wife Lindsey, who is obviously the best thing that has ever happened to me in my life.
Third was Dan Cumberland, who has helped me survive fatherhood, business, and turning 40.
It’s only been a year, but I’m pretty sure Lauren Cibene is the fourth.
Lauren’s debut book, Tiger in a Lifeboat, is a spiritual memoir and travelogue through India.
Her vivid writing makes it feel like you’re right there with her as she explores the beautiful, and at times overwhelming, country.
Her path to recovery from a spiritual crisis will feel familiar to anyone who has been there, including those who don’t know that’s what they’re experiencing.
Tiger in a Lifeboat is easily the best book I’ve read so far this year.
It sticks with you in the best ways.
I’m so honored to count Lauren as a friend. Please enjoy our conversation, follow her on Substack and Instagram, and of course, buy Tiger in a Lifeboat.
P.S. I’ll be on a panel discussion with Lauren and some other amazing folks next Tuesday, May 13th. RSVP below to join that conversation.
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